You know sometimes i wonder what on earth it is that i have said to create such misunderstanding......I've had one of those really strange conversations with someone today where i was completely misunderstood - so much so that i wondered if the other person was having the same conversation as i was at all!
I was letting the other person know they should be careful about something because it could be easily misunderstood ironically enough. From their response i knew immediately that they didn't understand what i meant......I was trying to look out for them but they thought i was accusing them of something and the whole conversation turned into a complete mess!
Now i'm left feeling like i wish i could rewind time and just never mention it at all - let them walk into the trouble i can see coming a mile off! Thats not me though, i just wanted to protect them from repercussions of their actions - stop them going through a painful situation that could be avoided very easily and yet by saying something about it at all i have caused a whole painful situation!! Arrrrggghhhhh sometimes i hate communication - its so inadequate at times!!!!
I was letting the other person know they should be careful about something because it could be easily misunderstood ironically enough. From their response i knew immediately that they didn't understand what i meant......I was trying to look out for them but they thought i was accusing them of something and the whole conversation turned into a complete mess!
Now i'm left feeling like i wish i could rewind time and just never mention it at all - let them walk into the trouble i can see coming a mile off! Thats not me though, i just wanted to protect them from repercussions of their actions - stop them going through a painful situation that could be avoided very easily and yet by saying something about it at all i have caused a whole painful situation!! Arrrrggghhhhh sometimes i hate communication - its so inadequate at times!!!!
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